INTRODUCTION:
Before itself I want to tell to the readers that I am not going to point out any counselors but I want to share my personal experience. when we hear about counseling or counseling, we feel like they are the comforters.and peacemakers who brings peace between families, society etc. Absolutely that is true. but the same definition cannot be applicable to every counselor because there are many others who are arrogant and cannot understand or having clarity on what they speak.
MY EXPERIENCE:
Recently, I have met a counselor with some work and he started to argue with some other persons who came to him for some construction work to be done for counselor's house. he was asking them to do the work fast as possible but those workers were telling the right reason that the work will take little more time. Then he started to argue with them without listening to them. Then the workers were in silence and went away.
By this I understood many things. one among the many is like " a counselor must be a clear listener than a speaking one while talking, he has to take every point into his ears very keenly and clearly", but here counselor we see is going completely opposite to his very first idea from his key teachings . so that workers taught a lesson for him by remaining in silence. Another thing that I found in him is like angry with no reason. actually a counselor must be slow to anger because he is the one who counsels others who come with the problem called short temper or anger.
MY SUGGESTION:
If you are going to be or being as a counselor better you have patience, slow to speak and quick to listen to issues . how a counselor who has negative issues in him can make others to think positive?..
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