ARE YOU A COUNSELOR ?

   INTRODUCTION:

           

                          Before itself I want to tell to the readers that I am not going to point out any counselors but I want to share my personal experience. when we hear about counseling or counseling, we feel like they are the comforters.and peacemakers who brings peace between families, society etc. Absolutely that is true. but the  same definition cannot be applicable to every counselor because there are many others who are arrogant and cannot understand or having clarity on what they speak. 

MY EXPERIENCE:

                            Recently, I have met a counselor with some work and  he started to argue with some other persons who came to him for some construction work to be done for counselor's  house. he was asking them to do the work fast as possible but those workers were telling the right reason that the work  will take little more time. Then he started to argue with them without listening to them. Then the workers were in silence and went away.

                          By this I understood many things. one among the many is like " a counselor must be a  clear listener than a speaking one while talking, he has to take every point into his ears very keenly and clearly", but here counselor we see is going completely opposite to his very first idea from his key teachings . so that  workers taught a lesson for him by remaining in silence. Another thing that I found in him is like angry with no reason. actually a counselor must be slow to anger because he is the one who counsels others who come with the problem called short temper or anger. 

MY SUGGESTION:

             If you are going to be or being as a counselor better you have patience, slow to speak and quick to listen to issues . how a counselor who has negative issues in him can make others to think positive?..

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TURNING POINTS.

                                                              

                                                            TURNING POINTS.

A man was listening about the one of the 7 wonders that is Tajmahal. he decided to experience what he heard, so he started  his ride on his bike towards a beautiful place, TAJ MAHAL. On the way to Taj Mahal, he was facing many turning points . As he is travelling on his bike, he fed up of many turnings. As he continued to go even there are many turning points on the road ,finally he reached Taj Mahal which he aimed to reach. then after reaching there he felt very very happy. He has forgotten about how much he tired and fed up with the turnings he faced in the journey. Then he enjoyed alot  at Taj Mahal by using every opportunity to collect valuable information about the Taj Mahal and he noted down the key areas of the building where he felt they are much beautiful when they constructed it . he felt that it is a greatest experience.

LIFE LESSON:

    Even in our lives today we hear many excellent goals and beautiful values of life from others and we also wanted to achieve them. so we stop listening about them and now we want to experience them really as others also experienced. so we start to travel towards our goal which is very beautiful like TajMahal. but on the way to our beautiful and valuable goals, we come across many turning points like troubles,  problems, discouragements, feeling of not capable to do etc,then we find hard to reach the goal by fedding up but when we really continue to travel through them ,we can see our beautiful goal. then even we can find many precious things of our goal. we start to experience our goal ourselves ,then we note down every valuable things ,which we find in our goal which we can call as self experience rather somebody's words. 

CONCLUSION:

"REACH YOUR GOAL EVEN THERE ARE MANY TURNING POINTS THEN YOU CAN FIND WAY TO YOUR GOAL  WHICH IS VERY BEAUTIFUL".

LAME AND B(LAME)

                            


                                                               LAME AND B(LAME)

" BECOMING LAME,

     BECAUSE OF BLAME".

                 There are many people in the world as students , head of the families , teachers , women from every age group are  terribly facing many problems in their lives and undergoing deep depression, disappointment and distress. They finally conclude with one answer that they cannot do anything more in their life and wanna end up their lives. these are the people who are undergoing deep mentally disabled "THAT IS WHY THE REASON I KEPT THE WORD LAME IN MY QUOTE".  

                   In this list of people there are mainly youth who are students and the women who are threatened or mocked by the people around. if someone is pointing their weakness to blame or to discourage then this kind of mentally lame people immediately discouraged by the blame. 

                   As a result they cannot even take a step forward in their lives by conquering that blame. so for the solution  of this kind of lame people we must be sharing the encouragement and good news to them by showing them many historical people who are blamed but they never became lame rather they conquered and became significant as well as unique people in the world.

                  

SO TODAY MY ENCOURAGEMENT TO YOU IS YOU CAN DO ANYTHING,

                  DON'T EVER THINK THAT YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO DO SOMETHING WHICH YOU WANTED TO ACHIEVE .

DO NOT REST UNTIL YOU ACHIEVE IT.

YOU ARE SPECIAL , YOU HAVE YOUR UNIQUE TALENT 

LET IT COME OUT AND YOU SHARP IT WELL AS SOON AS IT COMES OUT,

DO NOT LET IT TO BE BLUNT.

Thanks to the one who read this article. I hope that this will be useful.